Showing posts with label bookclub. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bookclub. Show all posts

7.12.2017

Dark Matter - Blake Crouch - Intro


Dark Matter
By Blake Crouch
368 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - “Are you happy with your life?” Those are the last words Jason Dessen hears before the masked abductor knocks him unconscious. Before he awakens to find himself strapped to a gurney, surrounded by strangers in hazmat suits. Before a man Jason’s never met smiles down at him and says, “Welcome back, my friend.”  In this world he’s woken up to, Jason’s life is not the one he knows. His wife is not his wife. His son was never born. And Jason is not an ordinary college physics professor, but a celebrated genius who has achieved something remarkable. Something impossible. Is it this world or the other that’s the dream? And even if the home he remembers is real, how can Jason possibly make it back to the family he loves? The answers lie in a journey more wondrous and horrifying than anything he could’ve imagined—one that will force him to confront the darkest parts of himself even as he battles a terrifying, seemingly unbeatable foe.

Dark Matter is a brilliantly plotted tale that is at once sweeping and intimate, mind-bendingly strange and profoundly human—a relentlessly surprising science-fiction thriller about choices, paths not taken, and how far we’ll go to claim the lives we dream of.

F & C - Blake Crouch is very good at creating new worlds and concepts that just suck you in. I love Wayward Pines and when it came to giving suggestions for my MBA book club, I did not resist in nominating this. I'm excited and hope you join in :)

7.10.2017

The Handmaid's Tale - Margaret Atwood - Review




The Handmaid's Tale
By Margaret Atwood
311 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble


Background - "Offred is a Handmaid in the Republic of Gilead. She may leave the home of the Commander and his wife once a day to walk to food markets whose signs are now pictures instead of words because women are no longer allowed to read. She must lie on her back once a month and pray that the Commander makes her pregnant, because in an age of declining births, Offred and the other Handmaids are valued only if their ovaries are viable. Offred can remember the days before, when she lived and made love with her husband Luke; when she played with and protected her daughter; when she had a job, money of her own, and access to knowledge. But all of that is gone now…."

My Review -

When I picked up this book, the Hulu show had not started. I struggled to read it because it felt real and raw and slightly worried me.... I lied, it worried me deeply. I read, watched the show and felt that it was definitely worth my time. I didn't like how it ended but my hope is that it ended on a good note.

It worried me because I felt that there was no way our world will be like what was portrayed. But early this year when thousands of women and allies were protesting for women's rights (and are still protesting), I kept going back to this book and thinking... what if? (I know, it will NEVER happen.. but what if?)

I kept going back because I was scared and worried. I imagined a world where women didn't have rights, women were against other women, women were seen as sacrificial lambs and brainwashed into thinking they were less than man and women were stuck in this never ending reinforcing loop of injustice and silence.. silence of thoughts, words, and feelings. I know there are still places in the world where this is normal, but I refuse to let this ever come close to the new normal for me or anyone I know.

It is a very good read for many women.
It is a reminder to US that we will NEVER let this happen.
It is also a reminder for us to know that for parts of the world where this is happening, we will continue to fight for our sisters, mothers, and children.

To support women all over the world, please visit the following links-

Planned Parenthood #StandWithPP!
UN Foundation  #UNWomen
Every Woman Every Child #EWEC
HeForShe #HeForShe

This is clearly not an exhaustive list, and there are SEVERAL ways to make a tiny impact. Look at your surroundings and ask how you can help.



1.23.2017

The Handmaid's Tale - Margaret Atwood - Intro



The Handmaid's Tale
By Margaret Atwood
311 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - "Offred is a Handmaid in the Republic of Gilead. She may leave the home of the Commander and his wife once a day to walk to food markets whose signs are now pictures instead of words because women are no longer allowed to read. She must lie on her back once a month and pray that the Commander makes her pregnant, because in an age of declining births, Offred and the other Handmaids are valued only if their ovaries are viable.
Offred can remember the days before, when she lived and made love with her husband Luke; when she played with and protected her daughter; when she had a job, money of her own, and access to knowledge. But all of that is gone now…."

F & C - Our quick read for this year is The Handmaid's Tale!I think with everything that is going on in the world with women's rights or lack of,  this is a book to start off the year with a bit of thought provoking words.  I'm excited to read this because it's going to be a tv series on Hulu very soon. Hope you join in!

10.08.2016

Milk and Honey - Rupi Kaur - Review


milk and honey
By rupi kaur
204 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - 'milk and honey' is a collection of poetry and prose about survival. About the experience of violence, abuse, love, loss, and femininity. It is split into four chapters, and each chapter serves a different purpose. Deals with a different pain. Heals a different heartache. 'milk and honey' takes readers through a journey of the most bitter moments in life and finds sweetness in them because there is sweetness everywhere if you are just willing to look

My Review -

I gave this book 5 stars. No doubt about it, this is one of the best poetry books I have ever read. As I was reading, I kept thinking - Rupi, you took the words right out of my emotions.  My favorites in particular order were the breaking, the loving, the healing and the hurting. I related a lot more to the breaking and the loving. The hurting was very deep, but the breaking was the best. Excerpts of my favorites from each section below -

The breaking -
Rupi Kaur - the breaking 1

The breaking 2
The Loving -

The loving 1
The loving 2
The healing -

the healing 1
the healing 2
The hurting -

the hurting 1
the hurting 2
Please get Rupi's book! It is AMAZING! It is GOLD! Also, feel free to pin these, I had fun making them :) 

6.15.2016

Milk and Honey - Rupi Kaur - Intro

milk and honey
By rupi kaur
204 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - 'milk and honey' is a collection of poetry and prose about survival. About the experience of violence, abuse, love, loss, and femininity. It is split into four chapters, and each chapter serves a different purpose. Deals with a different pain. Heals a different heartache. 'milk and honey' takes readers through a journey of the most bitter moments in life and finds sweetness in them because there is sweetness everywhere if you are just willing to look

F & C - It's the middle of the month, and last month, we took a break :).  To make up for last month and to have a quick break from fiction, if you are interested, lets take a quick detour to poetry and finish this month with a big bang (I'm currently in London, and their Netflix has The Big Bang Theory, and I've been binge watching it before I go back to the States where unfortunately we do not have it)! Thanks to Instagram and the explore page, I found out about Rupi Kaur and read some of her poetry, and of course I fell in love with the way she used her words. I have since bought her book, and and will be reading it this month! Hope you join in :)

4.29.2016

Fates and Furies - Lauren Groff - Review


Fates and Furies
By Lauren Groff
400 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - Fates and Furies is a literary masterpiece that defies expectation. A dazzling examination of a marriage, it is also a portrait of creative partnership written by one of the best writers of her generation.

Every story has two sides. Every relationship has two perspectives. And sometimes, it turns out, the key to a great marriage is not its truths but its secrets. At the core of this rich, expansive, layered novel, Lauren Groff presents the story of one such marriage over the course of twenty-four years.

At age twenty-two, Lotto and Mathilde are tall, glamorous, madly in love, and destined for greatness. A decade later, their marriage is still the envy of their friends, but with an electric thrill we understand that things are even more complicated and remarkable than they have seemed. With stunning revelations and multiple threads, and in prose that is vibrantly alive and original, Groff delivers a deeply satisfying novel about love, art, creativity, and power that is unlike anything that has come before it. Profound, surprising, propulsive, and emotionally riveting, it stirs both the mind and the heart.


My Review -

I gave this book 3.5. This is the type of book that you have to read slowly and patiently. Because If you don't, you'll miss a thing or two. This book takes us into our main characters past, present and future. Should all that has happened in the past in your life be talked about or discussed with your partner assuming you are married, about to be or thinking of heading that way ? Would you be hurt by things unknown about their past and would that cast a shade or light (depending on the discussion) to the present and what could happen in the future ? Knowing your partner through and through thoroughly prepares you for the unknown unless one person is more jaded and is wearing rose colored glasses. This book is divided into Fates talked about from an outsiders view of the husbands side-Lovable Lotto and Furies from the wife's side - Mathilde. After the end of fates, my heart literally sank. I didn't want to move on.. I wanted to read another book because I was sad. With Fates, we fell in love with Lotto and his nonchalant attitude towards everything, we felt his pain during his job search, finding what he really excels in and working hard, we felt his desire to have children and the way he associated himself with people.We were the audience and we loved everything, and we knew everything could not be as they were. We had to move on and read Mathilde's side of the story because it's time to remove that rose colored glasses and I think we are ready to meet the real Mathilde. In Furies, we find out that Lotto only saw things he wanted to see but Mathilde loved him immensely, even more than herself. We start to understand who Mathilde really is and her past which was hidden from us and her husband, Lotto. In a relationship, there will always be good friends and bad friends that might or might not mean anything by the actions they make. In this case we meet Chollie, he is both a gift and a curse. We see his dynamic with Mathilde and how they run each other crazy with their scheming and at the end of the book, we try to understand both of them, and we get a surprise from an old friend.

This book was very difficult to read at first, but once you get out of chapter 1, you start to enjoy the story, and really get into it. I felt that the author was doing a bit too much with the acts, but I still enjoyed the book. It gave me a lot to think about, especially about relationships. I was more bias towards Lotto because you could just FEEL his heart towards everything. A question this book made me think about is - Do you start afresh with your new partner, not talking about your past, or do you divulge every single thing so your partner knows before getting in too deep ? 










3.10.2016

Fates and Furies- Lauren Groff - Intro


Fates and Furies
By Lauren Groff
400 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - Fates and Furies is a literary masterpiece that defies expectation. A dazzling examination of a marriage, it is also a portrait of creative partnership written by one of the best writers of her generation.

Every story has two sides. Every relationship has two perspectives. And sometimes, it turns out, the key to a great marriage is not its truths but its secrets. At the core of this rich, expansive, layered novel, Lauren Groff presents the story of one such marriage over the course of twenty-four years.

At age twenty-two, Lotto and Mathilde are tall, glamorous, madly in love, and destined for greatness. A decade later, their marriage is still the envy of their friends, but with an electric thrill we understand that things are even more complicated and remarkable than they have seemed. With stunning revelations and multiple threads, and in prose that is vibrantly alive and original, Groff delivers a deeply satisfying novel about love, art, creativity, and power that is unlike anything that has come before it. Profound, surprising, propulsive, and emotionally riveting, it stirs both the mind and the heart.

F & C - Book Club time!! I've been thinking about what book to introduce and I came across Fates and Furies by Lauren Groff. It was Amazon's 2015 best book of the year which makes me think there must be a reason it was voted such and we are about to find out! I'm usually curious about books that make top 5 lists and I tend to buy them to figure out their appeal.  I'm excited because it is a love story which is definitely a different genre from our last book. I can't wait to finish it and review it next month!


2.29.2016

Trail of Broken Wings - Sejal Badani - Review



Trail of Broken Wings
By Sejal Badani
370 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Remember when I suggested a book club ? Well its that time of the month! Review Time, but first a little background - 

Background - When her father falls into a coma, Indian American photographer Sonya reluctantly returns to the family she’d fled years before. Since she left home, Sonya has lived on the run, free of any ties, while her soft-spoken sister, Trisha, has created a perfect suburban life, and her ambitious sister, Marin, has built her own successful career. But as these women come together, their various methods of coping with a terrifying history can no longer hold their memories at bay.

Buried secrets rise to the surface as their father—the victim of humiliating racism and perpetrator of horrible violence—remains unconscious. As his condition worsens, the daughters and their mother wrestle with private hopes for his survival or death, as well as their own demons and buried secrets.



Told with forceful honesty, Trail of Broken Wings reveals the burden of shame and secrets, the toxicity of cruelty and aggression, and the exquisite, liberating power of speaking and owning truth.

My Review -

I didn't want to finish the book so I took my time :) This was my first book about domestic violence by an Indian author, and Sejal Badani is an amazing debut writer. She was able to write a book that felt real, was very honest, and brought about a rush of emotions and questions. The first thing I noticed was how different/distinct each character's voice was. Ranee, Marin, Trisha, Sonya and Gia became women I wanted to protect. I understood how violence of this nature got to the point it did because there is a cultural aspect. The Indian culture or any culture in general is a very community oriented culture. It is very possible that in cultures where their beliefs and way of life is in the air they breathe, the food they eat, and the way they talk, violence can be hidden by both the perpetrator and the victim.  Why would they hide it ? Because it brings a type of shame that will not only affect the abuser but the victims as well in a way that can never be erased. In this book, each character handled the abuse differently. At first I hated Ranee, because I thought, as a mother you should always protect your children no matter what, but I soon realized that if she died or ran away, she wouldn't have been able to protect them. I disliked Trisha because she was insensitive and very selfish, I felt she needed to grow more and understand more of how she became the way she did. I also did not like Gia, but I think because she was young and didn't understand a lot about violence, and was misled by two people she loved, it is understandable how she felt the way she did. My favorite characters were Marin and Sonya because they were the strongest women in this book. They both handled the abuse as well as they could, and were able to start finding lasting ways to heal. It wasn't only physically healing but also mentally healing because abuse doesn't just hurt physically, it causes psychological problems that take years and love to heal. By the end of the book, we notice that each character is healing and going in the direction of  not only forgetting the past, but also learning from the past to build their future. 

I absolutely loved this book, and I will recommend it to everybody!

If you know anybody that is suffering from domestic violence, please speak up, or let somebody know. I have personally not experienced domestic violence and I know that nobody can understand what the victims feel but they should know that they are loved and prayed for. I checked my analytics and the top 5 countries that visit my blog are from the US, France, Russia, Germany and the UK. Thank you to all over 14,000 of you!


Please see below for websites you can get more information on helping to report or learn more about domestic violence. 

US - The National Domestic Violence
France - This is a list of counselors, and crisis support information that can be used
Russia - Anna Center
Germany - Big Hotline and also this brochure that has a lot of information on reporting violence and what happens after the police is involved.
UK - The National Domestic Violence , Women's Aid , Men's Advice Line (because boys and men are also victims of domestic violence)

I know this isn't much help, but it is a little bit of what I can do as a voice on the Internet.

I will be talking about our next book for the month tomorrow!! Can't wait to share it! 

1.06.2016

Trail of Broken Wings - Sejal Badani - Intro

Happy New Year!! 
Knowledge is a good way to start the year on a good note! 
I love reading for leisure and it comes as no surprise that one of the posts I want to introduce to Fine and Casual is a book club. For each month, I'll introduce the book at the beginning of the month, and then a review at the end of the second month where we can discuss the book. Hopefully, this will start somewhat of a book club ? Say yes!


Trail of Broken Wings
By Sejal Badani
370 pages
Available at: IndieBound || Amazon.com || Barnes & Noble

Background - When her father falls into a coma, Indian American photographer Sonya reluctantly returns to the family she’d fled years before. Since she left home, Sonya has lived on the run, free of any ties, while her soft-spoken sister, Trisha, has created a perfect suburban life, and her ambitious sister, Marin, has built her own successful career. But as these women come together, their various methods of coping with a terrifying history can no longer hold their memories at bay.

Buried secrets rise to the surface as their father—the victim of humiliating racism and perpetrator of horrible violence—remains unconscious. As his condition worsens, the daughters and their mother wrestle with private hopes for his survival or death, as well as their own demons and buried secrets.

Told with forceful honesty, Trail of Broken Wings reveals the burden of shame and secrets, the toxicity of cruelty and aggression, and the exquisite, liberating power of speaking and owning truth.

F&C - This is my first book by an Indian-American, and domestic violence. I'm really excited for this book as the reviews have been great! But lets make our own opinions, right ?! See you by the end of February!